In life you will get offended by people same way you too would have offended some other people whether knowingly or unknowingly , it is your decisions on whether you want to forgive them or not but I will always advice you to pick forgiveness and learn to let go..
Sincerely it takes alot of energy for a person to keep showing anger towards other individuals or to keep holding malice in their hearts..
Alot of people have allowed their interests for revenge to capture their minds and they stop focusing on the positive aspects of life but they rather now focus on how to hurt the other individuals who they feel have really got them angry and they need to revenge , it makes such person to spend all their time thinking and planning how to cause pain to others , it makes such person to keep thinking of how they can make the other person to become sad and miserable..
It is truly not very easy to be able to forgive a person who have really hurt you and offended you so much , whenever a person feel pain caused by the person who offended them , they have the options of doing two things, is either they forgive the person or they decide that they must engage in revenge..
Of course alot of people tend to pick the option which involves revenge but honestly that is not the right thing to do..the right option is to forgive the person, it is not going to be easy but it is necessary and important for your own inner peace, for the peace of the society and also a way to promote love amongst each other..
There is no love without forgiveness, you need to be willing to forgive others wheneber they hurt you or offend you , also remember that you too might have offended others too , now imagine if they too decide not to forgive you and they decide to take revenge on you too?? That would be so disastrous..
Some people assume that when they take revenge then that is when their mind will be at peace but that is totally false , getting the revenge will not bring you any peace of mind,
infact it will cause more troubles to your mind..
It will only make you to feel more miserable about yourself and the actions which you took.. The revenge will not give you the happiness which you think you can get from the revenge , revenge will not heal you, it will only make you become a very bitter and heartless person..
You need to allow forgiveness to be your priority when anyone offends you , you should be willing to forgive and forget because that is the say you can always stay at peace with yourself even when others try to hurt you and cause you pain..
You cannot have the true peace of mind if all you think is how you want to revenge by hurting other people., you cannot be hurting others and expect to still have peace of mind , it does not work that way..