REMEMBER IT WAS NOT LIKE THIS AT THE BEGINNING.
No one plan to fail in marriage. All the plans of every couple is to live in peace and harmony.But there are circumstances that shall be discussed here which may likely be a threat to any marriage.
No man will want his wife to be erratic in behaviour. Men want their wives to be accommodating and submissive to them. But that is not the case in many homes. A woman that doesn't see anything good in his husband life irrespective of how the man go extra mile to satisfy her, may push such man outside to commit adultery if such man is not a serious type himself.
Women that rub shoulders with their husbands at home because they are on the same level, or because they are rich may end up loosing their homes to girls that can be called their daughters.
The most interesting thing is the women that their husbands are Pastors. They know well that such men will not want to commit sexual sin that may label them as an infidel. Yet they kept on maltreating such man at home. It's glaring that they don't support their husbands ministries. They are proud, arrogant and saucy. The most unfortunate thing about such women is that they respect other husbands outside more than their own.
Woman, If you know you can't support him, why do you get married to him? If you know you can't be submissive to him, why do you accept his proposals? You are meant to support each other and not to do things alone. There are women who are the breadwinners of their families, it's hardly to know if they did not tell anyone.
Your husband rides in a rickety car, you are riding a new saloon car, you can not give him the key to your car, just because of these arrogant attitudes of yours.
Sex at home is on timetable. Your husband cannot ask for it at his will, you will have so many excuses. Why can't you bury your pride and eat your humble pie.
Some men too are devil incarnate. They have thrown away trust, they have created deep wounds in the woman heart through their reckless ways of living. They don't have time to spend at home with their wives. Too many concubines outside has taken their most precious time.
Women are humans, they are not log of woods, they must be honoured and respected. It's whatever you input in them that you will see. Let them see your sincerity and openess in all things. You will be amazed that they will be submissive to you.
Above all, marriage can only work in the atmosphere of understanding and peaceful co existence.
Thank you. I Love You.