Don't Blame Your Parents Always

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Recently in our contemporary societies today, lots of bad things happen and when this occurs, we tend to rap it all on parents. Parents most times, gets a bad rap for bad behaviours of their kids. Let's take for instance, when the kids get in trouble, the first people everyone blames are their various parents. Some awful things like raping, violence on school,fights in the campus ball Introduces the blames on parents. Some first question and first thing people will ask is " where were the parents?". It's true parents make mistakes. It may very well be that the parents of children who decided to take up arms and gone down innocent classmates and teachers made huge mistake in raising their children. The truth is that we are all humans and the truth is all parents make mistakes but, their children don't become killers or murderers through their teaching but Through self and peer influence if I may say. The blame on parents are too much that we forget our own individual responsibilities. Note: there is no handbook to being a parent and no test you have to take to becoming one. Although, sometimes it seems like there should be. All it takes to be a mother or a father is a man and a woman or sometimes today a test tube... And you know how it works.

VERY BEST ANALOGY OF PARENTS

Parents like everyone are much as their children are, entailing who they are as they go along. When we have the urge to blame our parents for everything that's wrong in our lives, it might be a better idea to stop and consider that the law was one the best for us, and did the best they could.

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Of course I know no parents wants bad for their children, you are like that most parents want their children to have a better life than the had. If maybe we can look back and consider what circumstances our parents have undergone and also the challenges as well as vicissitudes of life they had faced during our upbringing, perhaps, we will be able to see their mistakes with a little more compassion. Remember like I said they are human being just as we are and make mistakes just as we do. None of us is perfect.

Considering your parents struggles while raising you will help to reduce the tendency of blaming your parents for what is wrong in your life. It will release yourself from being a painful and supporting cast. Having compassion for our parents journey means, it's more likely we will have a little more compassion for ourselves and the mistakes we will inevitably make in our own lives and those of our children. When you focus less on blames and more on tenderheartedness, you can see the gift that exists in good and bad occurance .

CONCLUSION

If you focus mainly on what was wrong in your childhood stage, you will only get frustrated and will always be stuck in the past. Why do people even say " I don't want to be like my mother or my father?" But at the same time, you see them doing exactly that which their parents did. Just being fair with a fact means that staying focused on the past and on blames and what's wrong, you will continue to repeat many of the same mistakes. Hence, look forward in your life,. acknowledge what didn't work in the past that you would like to do differently.

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Forgive your parents and know they did their best for you. Thus, look to your future with the understanding that you can accept all of who you are, whether good and bad then move ahead and decide to change and not to blame

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