“Losing” doesn’t mean “losing”. The real meaning of the word is that you get another chance to try again. You never fail until you stop trying.
Understand loosing and we will enjoy it more, or at least see a greater purpose in it and then we can LEARN more from it.
Much of our work with the poor is based around constant "encouragement", very little correction. If we "encourage" others, they will often "self correct".