Unforgiveness is the biggest occupant in your life. It does't abide alone. Carries hatred, anger, and bitterness and if all other things being equal, it adds pain. The person you don't want to forgive becomes your regulator.
You accumulate titles like me. I thought titles earned respect and maturity but maturity isn't a hardened heart. We don't stop eating because a particular food is not nice. Do we? Exactly you can't stop showing love because perhaps, life didn't treat you nice or fair.
The beginning of immaturity is when you can't differentiate with what steals your time and what utilizes your time. I have just one question, what exactly are you holding on to? If you not ready to forgive, tell me like what?
The scripture for today is 2 Peter 1:5-7(I don't see anywhere in this scripture add unforgiveness).
Have a shekinah day.