Humans have different problems. It could be about unemployment, health issues, huge debts, poverty,stress, depression and so on.
As long as we live in this world, there are bound to be problems.
Life is a mixture of good and bad, happy and sad.
When faced with a problem, take these steps in dealing with it;
Do not blame anyone for your problems
Blaming people for your problems is a lose-lose situation. You should be more concerned with how to solve the particular problem. Do not blame others for your problem. Handle it and fix it.
Do you have challenges, struggles and difficulties?They will pass,it will not last forever.Staying positive in the midst of challenges is the key.
Look at the positive side of a Problem
When faced with challenges,try and look at the positive side of it.
What will you learn from it?How can you improve on solving your problems?
When there is a problem, look out for the solution. Don't deep yourself in self-pity. Take charge of the problem.
For instance, if you are ill, go the hospital.
If you have issues bothering you,talk it out with someone and think of how to solve the problem.
Problems are a way of Learning
If faced with a problem. Ask yourself, what will I learn from it?Do not start blaming others, or asking why you are faced with the problem. That’s not how to solve it anyways.
For instance, a couple of Nigerian youths admitted that unemployment made them acquire skills which in turn made them self-employed.
From this, we can deduce that unemployment (a problem) brought about self-employment(an improvement).That means problems end up making you an improved person.
Do not let your problems define your happiness
You can turn your problem into something positive. You may not have chosen your problems, but you can choose how to react to it.
Do not let your problems be an excuse for failure.Keep trying until you succeed.Never,ever give up.
Thanks for reading.
From your naija girl 
Reference
Tough Times Never Last, But Tough People Do! by Robert Schuller.