Life is pretty funny when it comes to feelings. You get hurt easily on some things and you hurt other people on simple things. Though they may appear simple to us but it could be big thing for some other people.
In this quest called life we end up hurting others and get hurt in return. So how does this work?
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When Your Interest clashes with Others, You hurt others
You may notice that people who get clashed with each other usually have clashing of interest or just timing where two are affecting each other. And so we find that hurting each other is possible in this process. We don't have to be hard on our own selves or others. It's just how life is and we can't control this.
When Your Timing and others Timing clashes, You Get hurt
Say train is crossing the road and your road is blockced. You are in hurry and so does the train. Those 5 minutes of cross would cost you 5 minutes later in the driving. And so you get hurt in the process in some way. So the same applies to other people. Sometimes we are just catalyst of suffering of other people and others are for our suffering.
Sometimes Hurting is intentional.
Be it your case or someone else's case. You may find that hurting becoming the part of the process would make you feel like the hurting is intentional. So there is nothing you can do about the process. So never blame others even if it's intentional because sometimes other people choose to cross your path to make you strong by punishing you more.
Sometimes you have to let go.
Are you hurt or other people are hurt because of you? You can't spend your days in the sadness if that happens. You have to keep on moving and also you have to let things go. That's what many people have been doing for years. And so learn to let go of the past or even some of the things in present.
In life we have to keep moving and we keep making mistakes and keep hurting others and get hurt in return. We can't change this fact.
Conclusion
I have realized that being hurt and hurting others is a part of the life. And unless one gets hurt they don't realize what could go wrong. So make sure to let go of the things on both sides and move ahead in life :)