Noting fades worse than a memory tarnished. We tented to block out the worst and improve the best however if we really try we know it's still deep in our thoughts being pushed down by more anti-tarnish methods. We keep the monster under the bed for a reason as it guards all the bad things that happen in life to us no matter what it is. We have other places for them also like the closet at night when it's really dark, we don't dear open the closet door and if we do it's only a few times to prove to our self that we have it under control even when we do not.
When we get older we learn to control it better but we are still surprised by what could be the monster under our bed vs what we loved so much. What I mean by that is someone who you thought you knew to turn out to be a bad person that hurts you in ways you never knew existed. We fall in love with trusting that they would never hurt us or betray us in any way and then it happens.
The truth is that we are not perfect humans and we go into things expected it to be perfect. I'm not talking about cheating but to get your self to upset over things other than the few things that could destroy a marriage is a ticking time bomb ready to happen. Let's face it if you're playing games with your husband or wife to make them jealous you deserve the outcome of that very bad move. If your relationship is built on trust and you do anything to disturb that in a negative way you will get negative feedback, it's like your sabotaging your own relationship.
Oh, I made this art, I hope you enjoy it.
