今天心情会显得格外雀跃些。
毕竟明天要去看球赛啦,能带薪休息的话,相信没有人会拒绝的。要去看的是足球的比赛,其实我是去年才接触上足球的,也全是水马老师的强烈安利的缘由,后续觉得球赛确实是精彩,对这一类的竞技体育也逐渐感兴趣起来。
明天要去的体育场有点偏远,在增城区,坐地铁要两个多小时。原本是想预约一个顺风车过去,但定睛一看,居然也要一个小时五十多分钟!不禁汗颜:那我花这一百多的费用是图什么呢?外加上广州这个常年堵车的尿性,我们更加是不敢赌。于是,一致决定,慢慢坐地铁过去,该省省,该花花。
其实小的时候我对足球类的项目根本不感兴趣。缘由说来也蛮搞笑的,因为小时候霸凌我的一个男生是学校足球队的,此人在我们学校可算是恶贯满盈。小小的年纪,就只会四处骚扰女生,又或者是随机损坏他人的物品来显示自己的“权势”。后续听说他是只有一个父亲带大的,而父亲似乎平日里也不常与他见面。家庭的关系与沟通的缺失,才造成这般扭曲的性格吧。由此可见有时候,原生家庭对于意志力不算坚定的人的影响,也是尤为重要的。但小时候的自己,也根本不会深度思考那么多,于是“足球”就这样非常无辜地遭“连坐”了。
也得感谢后续和朋友们的认识,让我感受到他们对足球的热爱,从而认真正视自己的内心。才有新的机会,去重新不带任何偏见抵触地去感受它的力量,与那纯粹的人与人之间的链接。
如果让你选择去观看一场比赛,你会选择哪一项呢?
Today, my mood will appear particularly cheerful.
After all, I have to go watch a soccer game tomorrow. If I could take paid rest, I believe no one would refuse. I'm going to watch a football match. Actually, I only got into football last year, and it's all because of the strong encouragement from Mr.Feng. Later on, I found the game to be exciting and gradually became interested in this type of competitive sports.
The sports stadium we are going to tomorrow is a bit remote, located in Zengcheng District, and it takes over two hours by subway. I originally wanted to book a ride, but upon closer inspection, it actually takes an hour and fifty minutes! I can't help but feel embarrassed: What am I spending this over a hundred yuan for? In addition, with the frequent traffic congestion in Guangzhou, we dare not gamble. So, it was unanimously decided to take the subway slowly to reach the province, spend money wisely.
Actually, when I was a little girl, I was not interested in football related projects at all. The reason is quite funny, because one of the boys who bullied me when I was a child was on the school football team, and this person was quite notorious in our school. At a young age, they only harass girls everywhere or randomly damage others' belongings to show their "power". I later heard that he was raised by only one father, and it seems that his father doesn't see him often on weekdays. The lack of family relationships and communication is what causes such distorted personalities. From this, it can be seen that sometimes the influence of the family of origin on people with weak willpower is particularly important. But when I was a child, I didn't have the ability to think deeply, so 'football' was innocently implicated.
I also have to thank my friends for getting to know me in the future, which made me feel their love for football and allowed me to take my heart seriously. Only then will there be a new opportunity to feel its power without any prejudice or resistance, and to connect with that pure human to human connection.
If you were given the choice to watch a game, which one would you choose?
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