Your mind is probably fighting this topic already, like "this guy is just trying to make us read his post", well yes, I want you to, but it is true as well.
You probably have read about 117 books all trying to describe what they are or how you can achieve them, the 7 habits of the highly successful, 10 things successful people do...blah and blah
They all come down to action points, which eventually are all tied to that one thing.......DECISION
You are probably thinking "well, obviously"but if it is that obvious, you probably should be really successful, but are you?
DECISION
We make decisions all the time, consciously and unconsciously, no problem with the former, the latter is where most of the problems lie
Decisions have to be made, so if you do not take your time to calculate and perpetrate them, you mind auto-make them, probably based on past decisions or whatever, the point is, it doesn't exactly make the decisions in your best interest which is probably why you are not exactly where you projected you would be by now
SOLUTION
The way you project what you want to be, project the actions required to get there, do not let decisions be made by you, make your decisions, and make them in line with your target.
thank me in two years time.....Adios
do not let decisions be made by you, make your decisions