Oh, I told Sam to come to visit me when she is here. She said there are no near plans to visit Europe, if I remember correctly. But maybe plans changed. So, my invitation is there and also counts for you: If you come to Germany one day, give me notice :)
I hope, you are having a good time. When will you be back?

I have found myself changing based on who Im' with too.

Me, too. It's both fascinating and confusing sometimes that this happens.

Yes, remaining open to other perspectives cannot hurt :)