In my personal life I never met a full Christian or atheist. All I experienced where dialogs of a contradictory nature.

I think it's different if I myself call myself an atheist or deist or christian, or if others give me that label. My experience was utter irritation when others gave me names which felt not appropriate, the more convinced the other person was, that I must be this or that.

Can you share this experience that it's okay to give yourself an identity or label but not so okay when another one does that for you? Is it not also dependent on your mood, your daily form, your just experienced encounters whether you accept or reject a label?

I like to think freely and I think I just did?