Many of us experience struggles in life but do we need to give up? I would like to share my story on how I accept and continuously fighting for my family.
It was very frustrating sometimes that we need to experience some struggles in life. Some questions arise, why us, how can we, and what ifs comes in. Some may cause, stress and some may lead to depression but only one is clear God will not let you experience it if you cannot surpass it.
First my eldest son, it’s been 4 years ago since I give birth to my baby boy. For about 4 months he had diagnosed with primary tuberculosis which is nowadays common to a child due to polluted environment. Because of this it happens that his lungs is weak and always been in a hospital at least 3 times a year because of pneumonia. It was very hard to see your child to supper all this, antibiotics, dextrose, and laboratories but we always keep in mind that it was for his own good. It took for about 3 years since birth that we experience same scenario every time. We got his PTB treated and assure that it will never happen again.
A year after my father was diagnosed with liver stones that can cause death if not remove. He was rushed to the hospital to undergo operation to take all stone that cause his liver to become larger. But since he has a diabetes and hepatitis he needs to undergo many laboratories and observe if there will be possible operation complications. All test has been consider and luckily test results shows his vitals have been stable and they can continue the operation. We are praying that everything will be alright and Thanks God, the operation was successful. He got rest for days and when the time comes we happily went home to celebrate another life that has been given to him.
A few months later, midnight a prompt call was received somebody called me and said “go to medics because your husband got injured from a motor accident”. Together with my son, and sister in law we urgently got to the medics station to check what really happened and I was down when I saw my husband on a wheelchair with bruises and blood. A suddenly sat down on a chair and thinking why all of this was happening but then again we need to be strong for our son. When we checked actual condition, x-ray results shows that he has clavicle fracture and took some more test to assure that there will be no further damage. We went to other orthopedic doctors for second opinions that we can do. But all of them advised to undergo operation as this part is not possible to cement process. He was advised by the doctor to undergo operation from an orthopedic expert but we don’t have enough money to proceed surgery. He needs to take a rest for at least two months to heal all wounds that he gets but fracture stays. I was depressed and thinking what will happen next since I was currently pregnant for our 2nd child. With this timeline I have struggling to work hard as I need to support my family and my income was not enough to cover all the expense. But thankfully he recovered and all wounds turns scar and he was starting to work again but advised not to lift heavy items that will caused his arm to misaligned again.
Six months later my due date arrives. I was rushed to the hospital to give birth to my youngest son. Another baby boy blessing from above, but I didn’t know that same day my mother was also rushed because she suffers mild stroke due to high blood. Her tongue shrinks and he became stutter. We cannot understand some words that she speaks that time but we keep on supporting her that she need to fight for her grandchildren. We go to different doctors to have her treated. Lots of medicines was prescribe and this almost cover three forth of their monthly income for maintenance. Until now she was taking medicines to fully recover herself from the stroke. We all know that these struggles make one’s life to be strong. I sometimes doubt myself why this was all happening to us but we keep to be positive and not to let these problems conquer us.
All problems that have been given always have its solution. If you can’t stand up and keep fighting it may result to worst nightmares. This made me strong, a fighter! Regardless of all the things that happen don’t lose hope always put in mind God is always watching and never give one’s problem that can’t be handle.
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