Our identity should be the one with which we feel as happy as possible, regardless of the fact that it may bother others, taking into account that we must respect their space and way of seeing life, this is also part of our identity, our identity represents everything that fills us as a person and with which we feel happy.
Our identity is not closed because it must be open to any change as the years go by we acquire more experience and this makes us be better people if we want it is a matter of each person, we must always be to certain changes in our identity, but never change it by following someone's advice, if you want to renew any feature of your identity is because you consider it so, not because someone imposes it on you.
When you feel happy with yourself is a reason to have an identity that you like and that you have built your way of being and therefore try to keep it and you will make any change that is to feel even better about yourself, in life we learn every moment and this makes us be attentive to these changes to keep up with everything that happens to us.
When I look at myself in the mirror every day I ask myself if I like the way I am, that is to say, I constantly evaluate myself to be good with myself and in this way be prepared to share with the people around me and expect the best from me, at least those who appreciate me, and who value my identity as it is and that is what we must value at all times.
