Always connect different purposes to your life

One day I was struck by the behavior of a good friend, his gaze was detached from the rest of his body, he used to be very competitive, very tough, excellent self-control and with all the desire to help other people, seeing his face seemed so strange that I stopped for a long time to talk with him, we spent several hours talking, that dialogue was very good for him, and reminded him that we must always connect different purposes in our lives.

Without purpose we will feel empty, lost and without a horizon to guide us, in what I managed to hear from my friend, is that he had felt that his light had gone out, he could not find any motivation, which made life meaningless, that left me very thoughtful about what I was hearing, my words were concentrated on telling him that this was happening because the life he had until then no longer filled him, and he had to make a turn, I do not know how many degrees, you will discover that as you go making your decisions.

Many times we live as automated, where in our mind we introduce the tasks of the day to carry out, we work at least 8 hours a day, in order to cancel the bills of the expenses, as if we activated an automatic pilot every day, and which takes us to the same route, a life of routines that, at a certain moment you get tired of carrying it, and you want to change it completely, but, suddenly you ask yourself how to do it?

There the strategy of constantly connecting different purposes in life, we pass or achieve one purpose and go for another, and for another, we will always have something to long for, something we want to obtain for ourselves or for those we value, you can be in a job you don't like, it doesn't matter, the vital thing is what do you do when you leave your job?

You do things that fill the emptiness that you bring inside, or you just get home to lock yourself up and fill yourself with worries, and the next day to carry out the same routine, there is no problem with routines, as long as you like them, I have several routines that make me feel good, I like to carry them out, and if at some point I get tired of them I leave them aside, it is my decision, and that's the way I should always look at it.

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If you get bitter is because you want it that way, no one can force you to that, always have any purpose in your life and you will see how you will have a horizon to pursue, and a face that transmits joy and willingness to continue, if you feel that you are in a very small fishbowl and you think you are a big fish jump to another pond of bigger size and ready, always show the best attitude, and you will have control of your happiness and your life.