Each one of us has those things we like and the ones that we dislike. Sometimes they could even be minor things, but in the eyes of those who either love them or dislike them, they are big matters. It's more like beauty and ugliness lies in the eyes of the beholder situation.
I have my preference as well, as a person there are things I hate too, they include some animals, characters, dress, lifestyle and so on. I think in almost every area of life there are certain things we are not comfortable with.
Sometimes based on our preferences, societal beliefs, and morality. For me, once a thing is for bad and not for the good of all, it's an automatic hate. It could be whatever.
Below are some traits p I hate, and would never consider changing my decision till I leave this world;
1 . Disrespect: Respect is something that everyone, even kids desire. It looks very beautiful when people recognize us and treat us nicely, let's say like a prince but it's funny how reciprocating it is difficult.
No matter our background, no matter our looks and ages, we should respect one another. It makes things easy and simple.
I hate it when I see people talk and treat their fellow humans like they are trash. We are all dust for crying out loud, whatever you think you have, and even life itself would be no more someday, so what are we feeling like?
These days, young people are surprising me, you will see a young man talking rudely to people who are older than he is, even shouting at them because he feels he has money or power.
That pride won't take us anywhere, many were in that position that is making you pompous and they are not today, you are not the first, and neither would you be the last, so what is it?
You can have millions, or even be the president and still have respect for people, it won't kill you and it won't take anything from your prestige. In fact, it will make you an example for others.
Everyone in the world deserves to be respected, whether little or big, it's wrong to treat anyone like nothing whether they are inferior or superior to you.
Disrespect that leads to disagreement, from disagreement to conflict. Respect is reciprocal as they say, if you give it, you will earn it
If you want me and you not to settle at all, disrespect me or the people around. I don't care who you are but seriously, it will make you equal to the devil in my heart.
2 . Lies: every one of us told lies at one point or the other. It's so sweet, especially when you are giving it out and it's just flowing like magic. It will look all sweet until the moment the truth comes out, then you will see your folly.
No matter how bitter the truth is, I prefer you tell it to my face, it might hurt me, yes, but it is better than making me believe something that is false.
Nothing hurts like assuming this is how a thing is only to discover that it is nothing like it when you finally meet it. That is exactly what lies do.
One bad thing with lies is they kill trust fast, no matter how good you are, if you continue to lie to those around you, with time none of them will trust you anymore.
No one will beat you for saying things as they are. If it's red, say it, it may hurt the person for the moment but they will heal eventually.
3 . Selfishness: self-centeredness is inherent in every human, we all have a measure of it but then we shouldn't allow it to control us.
Today, we are suffering as a nation because some people who are after their bellies made it somehow into the government.
Thinking about only yourself is evil, if everyone is selfish, I bet you we won't have any opportunity out there.
Some people are so selfish that they don't mind if everything in the world goes for them and others go with nothing.
Selfishness deprives others from accessing opportunities and I am not pleased with it. We talk about love every day, if we love each other, then it should escalate to ensuring everyone is carried along.
It's selfishness that makes people sell job slots, it's selfishness that makes people only consider their family when they see opportunities, such a bad trait that brings setbacks instead of growth in the society.
I have many things to say but I just have to hold my peace here, just hope you enjoyed the read. See you around 馃グ
