Indeed love is a beautiful thing, for those who have experienced it either in marriages or relationships can attest to it. Love can brighten your heart and brings joy to you even in a moments of pain or sadness. Love brings connections between two of more people, brings friends and family together in celebration of birthdays, marriages anniversaries, contacts awards, graduations, and lots of them of which I cannot mentioned all here. Love is far more than just feelings or affection you have for someone. But love is being patient with someone even if the person isn't patient with you. Love is being kind to people and support those people even when those people aren't supportive of you. Love is able to believe in someone, knowing fully even if that person doesn't succeed in life or not regardless you will still love the person. Love is adding more strength and energy to somebody that's falling or has lost hope . Bringing beauty and meaning to people's lives is love.
Love doesn't have a limit to what it should be loved or not. We have family love, friends love, romantic love and self-love. I will share little of my own experience, my personal experience about my past and present love story or experienced. I have been into three different relationships since I became an adult, I have experience love and have tasted it. I can even shared how love hurts, destroyed people and also build people as well.
When you are in love, you always find a reason to work harder and becomes responsible person. You will become more careful about the things you do and says in order not to hurt partner or spouse feelings. You will become more cautious about things around you, your posture and character can be sharpen because you're in love. I remembered when I met this particular lady at a certain event in keffi, precisely a wedding program. It was a coincidence that spark the love from the first day we met. We sat down in the same high table and offered the same kind of food but different drinks.
I asked her if she will like to exchange my drink with hers, seeing I don't drinking wine , only soft drinks or orange juice. She looked at me and smiled and said there's no problem. She gave me her orange juice drink and I gave her the wine that was on my table. While we were eating and drinking, what's how we started talking and getting to know ourselves. From the moment of exchanging or sacrificing our drinks for the benefits of each other is love.
After the wedding reception was over I asked for her number and from there we built a friendship that led to a relationship today. When you ask some people what's love is? So many people will starts thinking of relationship love between a man and a woman or loving someone that love you back. Love is far beyond loving someone and being love back. Yes, is possible to love someone that doesn't love you back yet is called love. Love must not always be mutual before it seen as love. No doubt love hurts sometimes but it doesn't change the fact that love is beautiful. The person you love might not love you back.
The person you love can do things that will hurt your feelings and make you angry. Yet it doesn't change the fact love is beautiful. The promises you made to each time while inlove, even though it gets broken love still stands it grounds. Love is far beyond words, is an action and something that never die off. You can see sign that someone loves you, the cares, affection, attentions, support and contribution either physically, mentally, psychology and emotionally will show you is because such a person loves you. Love still stands beautiful, no matter the outcome, love is still love. Love is beautiful.
And sometimes ago, I once loved a lady that doesn't love me back. Not that she doesn't like me, she does like me but there's no emotional strings attached to it. Even though I was hurt because I expected her to feel the same way I felt then but that's wrong. You can't force someone to feel exactly the way you feels about them. Love shouldn't be force to get, is something that flows naturally.
She told me she liked me as a good guy, she likes my vibes and communication but she's into someone else emotionally and I accepted that fact. At times she will ask for my help and if am capable I will render my help to her and vice versa. Love cannot be measured base on things you received (gain) only but also things you gives out (lost) to other people.
