At times it reminds me of a single monkey with out a banana because everyone else has one. The monkey feels excluded because he can not do what he sees.

Better said impossible. I totally agree with you, notice that we are even forced to live under the parameters and concepts of normality, but who decides what is normal or not? How many of us have felt totally different and therefore forced by social pressure we have come to think that we are something that does not fit that is out of place. Today there is a discussion about changing the ending of a noun so that all people feel included, but does that mean changing the essence of the problem, which is not found in one or all the words, but in the way we use those words to mark and classify the brother, the other, my equal. I feel very sad when among us we use expressions such as "this is not one of us" "that person is something strange" "he is not the same as me" is where I wonder if changing a simple letter will lead us down the path of inclusion, for me it will not, this discussion all it does is create more differences and hatred between people, language as a social construction is subject to its use on our part, in itself is nothing more than a set of letters that form words and expressions but we are the ones who give it meaning.