Love is something I like to lie down thinking about. Love is not just one round thing like that, it's a concept that embraces a variety of things. Love has a positive energy, but not a few persons have thought it a bad thing and of course there's the love is wicked wicked song. But one thing gives love most of its powers and even energy. That thing is expectation. We tend to expect things from people we love. We expect them to behave in a certain way when wetell them certain things about ourselves. We expect them to be worried when we think they should. We expect them to want our company. We expect them to be happy when we have reasons to behappy. It doesn't always work like this. Life is more complex than this. We are different persons, brought up differently, by different persons, under different circumstances. The poverty in Nigeria hasn't helped much too. Maybe if you'll just learn how to love people expecting little, not much, or nothing at all from them, you'll love life a little more, much more maybe, than you currently do.
