We sometimes find ourselves in a situation where we want to be loved for who we are in a relationship, where both partners can showcase same feelings to each other without any string attached to destruct the love. Most people believe that true love most times cannot be found when money is not involve in the relationship and this however maybe true or not.
Who doesn't like money?
There is no one who would deny that he or she doesn't like money because we all know the importance in our lives, so there is no point in denying to like the means. But then it is taking a different dimension when relationship matters is involve. We are so bothered now that we can't differentiate true love in a relationship anymore where the love is only diverted to money alone.
It seems most relationship we are experiencing now is mostly base on the financial capability of the man and if he is not capable of maintaining the relationship financially most of those relationships ends in break-ups. We know that money is important no doubt but the love shown at beginning of the relationship is that a genuine one or a disguise for money?
We really can't tell or differentiate true love this days especially with the mindset and love people are really having towards money. I believe true love is scarce base on my own opinion but then no one wants to experience hardship so we should look at that aspect as well.
The part I really don't like in a relationship is when maybe the man is experiencing financial challenges at the moment and then people decide to have this mindset to leave without trying to support or help which is not appropriate. That is not true love but the love of money and this is really growing in the mindset of many in this present world that we live in.
We humans want to be loved, we want to feel the affection of our partners and the people around us which is very important in the life we live and the love we share but it have shown to be that without money that love won't showcase and we have to endure with the little we share or experience.
Are we paying for love in other to be loved?
Our financial capability will always differ from others that is to say that the way we spend and manage finance is also different. This sometimes seems to be a major issue in relationship when some people compare their relationship with others which is never a good thing to do especially when it involves how money is being spent.
No doubt it is a good feeling to spend for your lover depending on your financial capability but then it doesn't make sense when they don't appreciate it but decide to compare you with others. Some ladies decides to give a relationship trial if any progress may occur and if they feel it isn't working out they work away.
Like I said, money is important and no one wants to suffer but then that mindset shouldn't affects other people's feeling because they are human too and it hurts. The love in a relationship or even most marriages is depended on money and if that money doesn't showcase the way it have been since day one there would be no other option than to quit for another.
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