I'm a plodder. I don’t own my own house. I'm not really interested in owning bricks and mortar. I have a pokey little council flat but I'm happy in it. I have little money but will be getting my state pension in Oct/Nov so things will improve sightly.

Just because you don't have much doesn’t mean you are a loser or unacceptable to women. I think the first step is to start liking yourself.