Lol! I get the hair thing! Over 30 years ago, I lived in Ohio and would have my hair cut at a salon I frequented. I would watch in the mirror as the gal cut my hair; it's always been somewhat long, but back then, was in layers. 26 years ago after an 8 year stint in Colorado, we moved to Washington state, and I could never find anyone to cut my hair the way I liked it. So, I cut my own. All through my children's growing up years, I cut theirs as well, and still to this day, do mine and my husband's. I have not paid for a haircut in 34 years! My hair is down below my rear end. Here's a picture with it pinned up.

As for color; your description sounds lovely! Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day! !LADY