Thanks for your reply, i really appreciate that you took the time 😉 ... and also, that is some good advice, not only for my current situation, but for many other situations out there also.

People often tend to forget that certain words said or actions taken, they can’t be taken back. Sometimes these words and actions are like poisonous seeds, and once planted, you can only hope they never sprout, because when they do, there’s even more and often bigger problems.

And for me, at the moment, i look at things day by day and i’m old and wise enough to know, that even though sometimes you want and wish things go in another direction, time heals everything