My Secret -I made students and people love me.
My name is Ekojah Joshua .I hail from Apa local Government area of Benue state , Nigeria.Iam an Idoma guy.I love seeing people hanging around me.one of my strongest desires is to be loved by people especially students because of the environment I found myself.To my greatest surprise, Everything turn out to be opposite of my strongest desire.Therefore,I decided to carry out a research on the topic: How to be loved by people.At the end of my findings,I discovered that,
the desire to be loved and appreciated by others is a fundamental human need. As human, we crave connection and acceptance from those around us. But what happens when we feel like we're not getting the love and attention we deserve? Some people might try to force it, or manipulate others into loving them. But I took a different approach.
I won students' and people's hearts to love me, not by charming them or changing who I am, but by my findings from the research I carried out and being the best version of myself.
I found out that when you focus on your passions , hobbies and Areas of interest in life, people will love you without reservations if you
are doing well in them.
My love for Teaching mathematics/Further Mathematics made the students and people around me to come closer to me
I started by focusing on my passions and interests in solving and teaching mathematics in a well organised and simple method. I pursued my hobbies with dedication and enthusiasm, and soon found like-minded Students, Teachers and people who shared my excitement. As we bonded over our common interests, I formed genuine connections with others. They appreciated my accuracy, accountability, authenticity and energy, and I found myself surrounded by students, Teachers, parents, proprietors and people who truly enjoyed my company.
Again,I worked on building important and meaningful relationships with the students, Teachers parents and people by being a good listener and a supportive friend. I showed up for those who needed me, offered words of encouragement, and celebrated their successes. As I invested in others, they began to invest in me, and I felt seen, heard, and loved.
My late father sgt.Ekojah Moses Ochayis once told me that if you want to be loved by people, don't hide your flaws and learn how to embrace your imperfections
With the lessons and words of wisdom from my late father,i learned to embrace my imperfections and vulnerabilities. Instead of trying to hide my flaws, I shared them with others, and found that it was precisely those imperfections that made me relatable and end.
I created space for deeper connections and more meaningful relationships by organizing Extra mural lesson for students and coaching them for WAEC and NECO
, I practiced self-love and self-care. I made sure to take care of my physical, emotional, and mental well-being. My practice of self-love, gave me power and i became more confident, radiant, and attractive to people
In the end, I didn't have to force any students to love me.
My great Hive family members, being my authentic self, building meaningful relationships, embracing my imperfections, and practicing self-love, I created a life filled with love, connection, and belonging. I made people and students in Akwanga local Government area of Nasarawa state love me both those in
government and private schools not by charming them or changing who I am, but by being the Joshua or best version of myself.
