It's a lie and a big fallacy to think that somebody is coming to your aid; it's time to understand and swallow the hard truth that your future depends totally on you and the choices you are making every single day.
That is what will make us better each day. This can elevate us to the height we aspire to reach; everything you want to do and wants to be has ever been done before, like the popular saying, "there is nothing new under the sun", so use the internet as your source of guide and light to seek information and help in this present age either than counting on someone else's help.
We usually give that popular excuse that "I am from a poor background," but the moment you are 30 years and over, you are now the background, and everyone looks up to you to live up to that standard.
At this stage of our lives, we must make critical decisions and take bold steps towards the right direction even if nobody sees and believes in what we see and what we envision.