Firstly, I love what your wife said to you that "you should not to think too much about it because it is not a reflection of my output but a normal thing that happens"

I had love to add that, as we juggle with our day to day activities, anything can happen, policies changed daily especially in our work places, this is where your wife's words comes in, we must not ponder on the occurrence of the day, we must learn to focus on more important things

And yeah, Agencies feels they have the right to communicate with you anytime they want probably because they are the ones paying you... That's not funny at all

I am glad you got another job, a well paying one at that