It really doesn't matter if Lara and her husband were happy about the child or not, they made a decision to keep the child when they had an option.

Yes, this is true

I agree that we just can't sit in the judgement seat about the lives of others.

I am glad that you do

Honestly are we perfect in every decision we make? No, not me.

Of course, no one is

It's better not to get into any form of judgement.

It would be a wonderful way to live, but we can't help them but judge, it's in our nature