If their reasoning resonates with you. For me it doesn't. I think being slow to keep is always the best way to go.

Yes, I agree. being slow to speak is the best thing, and if I remember correctly, the scripture approves this too

Here is the thing for me: do you want to be right or happy. Most times it is left to these two options and most times people choose happiness and that entails letting things go--even the hardest thing.

This makes a lot of sense. It will no longer be a problem for me either then. I just need to always remember this

Thanks