This medium article is written by a woman addressing the masculine gender, but in fact, women too can learn some great deal reading it. This article is one of the best available on the net. The "dark forces" are working restlessly to destroy the Sacred Feminine and Divine Masculine and the sooner we begin to get it the more strength we have to fight back.
MEDIUM: Most porn is about watching women pretend to enjoy sex acts that are unpleasant to them. It doesn’t have to be this way, but it is. Men who watch this type of porn are basically being taught sexual practices that will not work in real life. Why does that matter? Well, if you’re an 18 year old virgin, the only moves you’re learning are moves that will leave your partners miserable
EARTH CUSTODIANS: This is a truly sad state of affairs because when you are young and brainwashed into such a poor rendition of reality, it really damages relationships for life. Porn is everywhere. Porn is the selfish expression of sexuality, about using one another as toys and the rawest form of objectification. It always ends in tears!
More than that, however, is men become accustomed to watching women pretending to be turned on. Being good in bed, fundamentally, is about being able to read someone else, and men are learning false cues.
Both genders are being taken for a ride, but unfortunately, this is nothing new. It has been embedded into society centuries ago, if not millennia, by just institutionalizing the submission of women but also making sure that the myth of the "happy hooker" stayed alive for men's instant gratifications. Keeping the minds of men busy with sex and war was (and still is) part of the agenda.
Porn culture has warped female pleasure to be just another thing women do for the benefit of men. This is why I’ve grown weary of sex-positive feminism. Sex may be fun, and pleasure may be good for you, but in my experience, very few women are actually adventurous enough to go out in selfish pursuit of their own pleasure. Many women like to appear sexually forward because this is a way to attract men, but the best strategy for attracting men is to pretend everything that turns them on also turns you on. Sex positive feminism, while good in theory, often becomes another way to justify catering to male pleasure.
Feminism has not emancipated women, far to the contrary. The vast majority of feminists today call for their rights to manage their own objectification, which is ludicrous and deceptive at best, a sign of cognitive dissonance induced by our mentally sick social framework.
Most women, I think, get stuck in a rut around male pleasure because it feels safer to cater to someone else’s pleasure than it does to open up about your own. If you are not actually receiving pleasure in sex, you are the one in power; your partner will always crave you more than you crave him. This gives you some degree of control.
We couldn't have phrased it better! Again the history of societies in almost every culture tells us that control over genders has not really changed, but now the agenda wants people to believe that they fully consent to it instead.
Sexuality, as preached by the mainstream, is perhaps the biggest trap of all, along with which of the financialization of Life itself, which is extended to sexuality, the Cosmic Force that propagates Life. And money is the medium that glues it all.
Surprising Benefits of Semen Retention: Society is goal-oriented when it comes down to sexuality, and this means that the “orgasm production” is paramount according to our mainstream criteria. One of the main reasons as to why porn is a 100 billion dollars thriving industry. Long story short, men and women alike are multi-orgasmic and this is a secret well hidden... Emotional happiness is found by learning about one’s body and overcoming one’s urges. https://medium.com/@manasearthcustodian/surprising-benefits-of-semen-retention-93a89e1c6394
The Importance of No FAP and Semen Retention for Male Health and Vitality with Josh Macin (TheAnarchast with Jeff Berwick)
Porn Makes Men Terrible in Bed. What turns women on? Well, they don’t show it on Red Tube (2016)
https://medium.com/@emmalindsay/porn-makes-men-terrible-in-bed-6e4df5f73200