Virginity may not be the reason why guys walked away and left if they already got it or if they don't get it. Maybe the real problem is your attitude or your character as his partner.
Yes, naturally we—men have our great necessity or desire when it comes to "sexuality" but virginity or sex is not the only thing we are yearning for.
For me sex is not the only thing you can do or use to sustain any relationship. Aside from it, there are many things that you could offer us. Love, respect and trust your man 'Hindi yan yung kanta ni Beyonce'(It's not Beyonce's song).
Show us your love, not just at bed times but also in bad times. Respect us like we are equal especially when it comes to decision making Hindi yung ikaw nalang lagi ang tama, sige(Not that you are always right, okay) Trust us not just in words but by action. Sabi nyo nagtitiwala kayo samin pero iniimbistigahan nyo naman kami(you said you trust us, yet you're investigating us)
Be a someone we can confide in. Show us your care, your understandings. Because, like you girls, we are also seeking for a permanent happiness not a happiness that lasts only for a few hours.
We are also needing for someone who can give us light when we are in the dark not just someone who will turn down the lights and take off our pants.
Be a woman that a man should never let go of. A woman we'll regret losing. And if you does, I guarantee, we'll never ever look for another woman in life. But if your man did, then it's his lost—not yours. Do not settle for less. Go for what is best.
Always remember this....
Happy Wednesday Everyone! :)
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