Christian marriage comes with a vow to stick together in good and bad times until death do them part. The bad times may signify every kind of awful event that happens while in marriage. No one is 100% righteous and we don't expect perfection from our spouses either, marriage is like a school where the two are enrolled forever as they keep learning. As much as I detest divorce, there is a certain sin I may not forgive and that's deliberate and repeated adultery(twice and above). Not because I can't forgive, but a sin that occurs more than once can be tagged as a habit and if we planned to spend our lives together , then I need to make a deliberate effort to want to see things work even when things aren't convenient for you.
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Even the Bible permits divorce if a woman is caught in adultery, so far, it's the only basis to which a Christian may divorce but forgiveness is also preached per-adventure it's not deliberate .
Would I Marry Again After A Divorce?"
In a case where I divorce my wife, I'll have to rethink the idea of getting married again. It's not good for a land to be alone, and it's also not good to take up another woman immediately especially when you have kids together . Personally I hate divorce, but when it's inevitable, I'll embrace it and consider if it's right to marry again or just stay and look after the children. What would determine if I'll remarry or not would be the age of the children. If they're grown and are adults, I'll just stay single otherwise, I'll remarry.
