What we do for love 1

One of my friends was feeling sad yesterday, so I asked him what happened, and he opened up to me. He was worried about his girlfriend because he was already tired of the relationship, and they had been dating for five years and concern was why would end a five-year relationship because he knew it wouldn't be easy.

When this man noticed changes in his girlfriend's behavior and suspected infidelity, he took action. He hacked her social media accounts Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, and Instagram, and what he discovered was shocking. He found evidence that his girlfriend was sleeping with another man who she claimed was her school son. As a result, he has already made up his mind to end the relationship and has no intention of reconciling with her.

This my friend is in pain, and he can't even concentrate anymore. My first question was, why would you hack your girlfriend's phone in the first place? It turned into an argument between some of my friends there and me because I didn't think it was right.

I agree with the fact that love can make us do stupid things, but I don't agree with the fact that you shouldn't have some kind of privacy even if you are married to your partner. I'm not saying this because I want to cheat or hide something from my partner, but I believe there are some decisions that I should be able to make myself even if they are in a relationship. You can make such decisions, and you will tell your partner later, but you have to make them first to prove you are loyal to the relationship.

Some individuals may claim that they are stalking you due to their desire to support and take care of their partner, but in reality, they are preventing them from making their own choices and being independent. This kind of behavior can have negative consequences, as it may lead to discovering unpleasant things and engaging in unwanted actions. In some cases, it may even result in hurting the person you love the most, all in the name of trying to protect them and avoid losing them.

I believe the relationship is by choice, and when we remove that choice, it's not my relationship; it's something else. If you love somebody and that person does not love you in return, you will notice, but sometimes, we lose our sense of judgment because of the word love. Let people choose you themselves and hack your partner's social media is just too much.