Hello everyone, today I’ll be talking about how it is said that “ life goes on”
Life goes on but to be honest, the pain remains. No matter what we go through as humans life doesn’t pause for any of us it keeps going.
As humans, we face challenges we don’t even expect, losses, and many more, but the truth is life has to keep moving.
For the pain, it will be felt intensely and it is so hard to see beyond that pain being felt. Pain is so overwhelming and when it is being felt, thinking and functioning properly becomes so hard. Though, it is easy for some people to move on fast while for others it’s like their world is being held another group is people who don’t show their emotions and they have gone through a lot. But after everything regardless of how painful or the circumstances are we are told to move on. We are always reminded to keep moving and put up a face of bravery and the truth is that it is not always that simple. When we put up a brave face it does not make the pain go away.
Pain is so real and it is felt in different ways. We feel it when we lose someone, when things do not go as planned, or when we are hurt. It can show up as different kinds of feelings, like sadness or emptiness. It goes as far as messing with our thoughts, sleep, and appetite. It can make us doubt ourselves and the world. To my understanding, it is not helpful to ignore pain. It needs to be felt and understood to heal.
When we are told to move on, it is not about forgetting the past or what happened. It is about learning to live with it and about finding ways to deal with the pain, the memories, and the hard feelings. It is about taking care of ourselves, doing things we enjoy, and letting ourselves feel all our emotions. Healing takes time, effort, and patience as we all know.
Everyone moves on differently. There is no single way to do it. What helps one person might not help another. The important thing is to find what helps you feel strong and hopeful as you move forward. Another funny thing is that as humans, we have a very large range of emotions. Even while feeling pain we still find ways to laugh and feel different emotions at the same time. life goes on, we move on but some pains will always be a part of our story.
In conclusion, I have learnt that moving forward like they say is not about getting rid of the pain. It is about learning to live with it, handle it, and heal. When this is done we will find that life goes on and we keep moving, but the pain will always be a part of our lives. Though some pains do not last that even when you remember you do not feel sad you just thank God that you can move from that phase of life. I pray we find strength, grow wiser in the experiences of life.
Thanks for your time.
