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The main reason why people don’t ask for help is because it makes them look weak and most people don’t want to see their self in this position so they decide to keep everything to themselves. When we look at how the world is created we will see that asking for help is part of life because you can’t always figure it out and even as a youth that you have all the whole strength in the world there are something’s you will need people around you to help you with.

Some people just hate to be a burden to other people or make them feel uncomfortable by helping them because situations like that might lead to many bad things in the future and one of those things is entitlement. To avoid this some people just love a transaction lifestyle where you use help to pay help so that both of you can be even. Most people like this because it cancels out any extra feelings but the question is asking for help bad?

Asking for help is not bad and a perfect example is us as a kid when we are completely dependent on our parents and we might not get anything done without them, and what matters is who we are getting help from, and don’t forget we also have bad parents too. Who we ask for help is very important because we have some people we shouldn’t ask for help and this set of people we know naturally our gut just tells us they are not the right person base on some event in the past.

Another thing to talk about is that when we are in trouble and we need help so badly we should not focus on getting help alone because we might keep going back for more which will lead to so many things and mostly disrespect we should focus on getting ourself out of the trouble we found ourselves and this way we will stop going for more help.