Attitude: the energy you give

Attitude: the energy you give | Ecency

I was talking to a man today at the gym, and he explained why he refused to hire one of his neighbors just because he knows her too well. He knows she doesn't have a good attitude, and everybody complains about her because of her bad attitude, and that is why he cannot risk it. He doesn't want that kind of person around him or at his workplace, and this brings me to the topic of the day, which is attitude. I realize that most people don't know how important it is, how it can affect them, and the kind of people that come their way.

The way we treat people is significant just because we don't know when we might need their help soon, and how people perceive us is also important, just like the one that happened with this lady. I am very sure that if she had a good attitude, the man would have hired her, but because of our record and what the man has been hearing about, that is why he turned her down. The truth is, we have so many people with bad attitudes who try to maintain being a different person at work just because they know how important it is for people to be comfortable with them at work.

Anything for the money

money is a powerful tool, and people will always bend to it, That is why you will see people with bad attitudes at work given their best attitude because they know within themselves that their attitude is not good and the only way they can sustain the job is to be what they are not. It is funny because people believe what they do at work doesn't matter, and they can behave anyhow when they are not at work, but that's not how it's supposed to be. You're supposed to give your best attitude anywhere you find yourself.

Instead of hiding and trying to be what we are not, why can't we just change? Be the best version of ourselves. We choose, live, and continue with our bad character, telling people that we don't owe them how we live our lives, but causing damage for us to hold on to good people or even to lose good jobs, and some people don't have a problem but their attitude is what's causing their problem.

The energy that come with attitude is so toxic

Attitude is contagious, and people tend to spread it quickly without realizing the consequences. When we talk about someone's negative attitude to others, it can harm their reputation, even if they haven't witnessed it firsthand. Word travels fast, and before we know it, the person's image is tarnished. This is one of the main reasons I always correct people when they say I don't care what people say about me, it doesn't matter. It matters because when many people think you're a terrible person, this might not affect you. It may also affect people around you that you call family.

Maintaining a positive attitude towards everything in life, especially towards people, is crucial for personal growth and success. While we may have a great attitude towards our work and other important matters, a negative attitude towards people can hinder progress and limit opportunities. Negative talk can spread quickly and push people away, preventing us from gaining valuable information that could benefit our lives. Thus, it is essential to cultivate a positive attitude towards everything we do in life and towards the people around us.