Wake up in the morning, habitually open the WeChat circle of friends, take a look at the WeChat friends, experience and life.
Once again surprised to see someone in the middle of the night painful to say: "people live in the end for what.". "
When more and more people are discussing why people are alive, I think, in the material flow of today, more people are lost, or even ignore this problem.
This society, which is carried away by matter, makes the world live very tired, the reason is that we are forced to pursue too much.
Yeah, why on earth are we alive? The maximization of matter, or the beauty of dreams? Or for those who love me and those I love, or for those who are inexplicably persistent and nostalgic.
It seems that there are no less than 10,000 answers for everyone, but generally speaking, it is just that we want to live happily and abundantly. Because no one will be willing to live in hardship, to bear the physical and mental suffering. No one wants to be the next van Gogh in the pursuit of his dreams. People can not live without material, and the art and dreams you pursue also need material to pave the way.
So, in my opinion, spirit is based on matter, but it is higher than matter.
True poverty, not only living in poverty, but also the barren of thought, is the pursuit of material insatiable. The emptiness of the mind is filled with matter.
Society is such as flow, stratification, there are also a lot of people struggling at the bottom of the society. Poverty is terrible, it makes your life very embarrassed, the most heartache is not that their material desires can not be satisfied, but that your favorite people are suffering from poverty with you, looking at the pain of lack of food and clothing, is heartbreaking. Not only that, there is no material security, living in hardship, why do they appear respectfully in the crowd society? If you can't be decent, you will lose your self-esteem and dignity to a great extent. In this way, a person's spiritual world will also be painful. Therefore, how many people are busy with money at all costs, how many people are afraid of poverty, what are they afraid of? What he was afraid of was that poverty made him abandoned by the whole world, white-eyed and inferior. I'm afraid I'll stay at the bottom of the cliff all my life and never see the sun.
You will find that after you get rid of the material desire of life, how can one side of the hospital be beautiful, if you worry in firewood, rice, oil and salt, pain in the patient and no money to cure, everything is meaningless. Those dancing ink, those sprinkled plum blossoms Qinghe, are laughing at your witness. Those poems and the distance are just a joke.
So, are spiritual and material gains and losses directly related to being happy in life? Poverty is not terrible, the terrible thing is that a person can not be satisfied with poverty, and does not have the ability to support their own ambitions.
There is a person who once argued between gain and loss: if you lose and get something at the same time, then you are not afraid of losing; if you lose, you have nothing to gain, then you are afraid of losing. Feel very right, I inadvertently said: the most afraid is to lose, it is pale and powerless pain.
The reason why people are helpless, is that you have always wanted to change fate, leave the pain, but the ability is not enough. Reflect on life and begin to understand that your pain comes from the desire to change your destiny quickly all the time.
No matter how strong a person is, he will suffer from some poverty, disgrace, discrimination, and the cold and warm feelings of the world as he grows up as a child and along the way. The injuries also left him unable to repair, so he was so eager to accumulate wealth quickly. A person is greedy or anxious, or depressed, inferiority, loneliness, and lack of sense of security, all from the trauma of his life, he may not get out of the shadow, but he must be hard, helpless, powerless struggle and mental pain, and this is cured. It's been a hard life.
When unable to resist, there is no one to protect, such helplessness extends into a kind of despair, this is a kind of escape or autistic.
The reason why a person is afraid of losing is because when they lose, they lose the opportunity to start all over again.
A person loses trust in the world, often because they have no support, no pacification, no understanding, no encouragement when they deal with challenges and injuries.
People's mental pain is struggling in poverty, and that kind of helplessness is more profound under the attack and ridicule of their loved ones.
Slowly, you will find that people who lack love are poor in a poor life, like a lonely dog, but also stride forward.
The biggest difference between human feelings and the power of things is that the marginal benefits of the latter are getting smaller and smaller, and the most important thing is that when you reach adulthood, you are responsible for your actions, and the world will not make you a giant baby forever.
So, if you can only take, not give back, then the world will let you hit the wall. The one who has been plundered by you for a long time will eventually leave you, and the one who has been the sister-in-law of the giant baby for free, has consumed the last trace of love and endurance, and will certainly abandon it. This is not absolute feelings, but also the despair of your helplessness.
At this time, some people can know what is wrong and regret it. The so-called endless return to the shore, but how many people are willing to turn back? How many people will believe that they will put down their butcher knives and become Buddhas on the ground? Sometimes, turn back to the shore, the shore is no longer there, put down the butcher's knife, it is too late. How many people struggle, how much sacrifice and cost do they need to live the way they want to be? How many people know that at the bottom of a cliff, they can actually live out a spring? I believe that our spiritual home needs material support in order to have more foundation and beautification. Alive, we need the fullness of the spiritual world, material security, contented mentality, happy Yi Ran mood.
In this era, how many people, how many families are really poor, poor is not only material, but also does not have a spiritual temple, can place helpless souls, treatment of wounds that no one can rely on.
Such a material pursuit and spiritual helplessness and pain, let people hiss and ask: why are we alive? I simply think: love what I love, enjoy what I like, work hard to make money, and live a happy life.
