Birthday is a significant day from many people and some people think that it's not significant and its like other regular days. Everyone have their own thoughts and there is nothing wrong in that case but there are some people who think that it's not something to celebrate and they try to discourage others while others think the opposite. They think that birthdays need to be celebrated in a grand way. In my country, some people even say that it's something against the religion. What's the truth, actually? Today I am going to discuss it.
Birthday is the day we came into this beautiful world, and the moment was indeed something to remember and try to make it more meaningful; we can try to celebrate it each year. From this perspective its very much logical. Again it's also true that crossing each year means we are getting closer to our death and our time from the lifespan is also reducing. Maybe that's the reason some people think that is something that should not be celebrated, as it's not something to be happy about.
Having thoughts about it is natural and every human has the right to think how they want. It becomes troublesome and people try to impose their thoughts to others and try to establish that they are the right and others are the wrong. I have seen some people arguing also about the topic which I felt quite ridiculous. I feel it ridiculous because nobody can be the winner as nobody can forcefully impose their thoughts when it's not something related to scientific logic. Why waste the energy for something like that.
Personally I am not a fan of celebrating my birthday in a grand way because it costs money 馃槄. But I don't mind if someone arrange my birthday party as a surprise. I feel it very interesting and I feel happy if someone do such a thing for me. I won't mind if they made it grand for me. If it's not the case, I would love to spend my day as a regular day. I don't mind also if no one wish me happy birthday as it's not the responsibility of anyone to remember my birthday. I don't care too much but I guess I because little happy when someone wish me happy birthday. What the reason behind the happiness? I actually don't know and I don't need to figure it out either. I becomes happy and that's enough. Why bother myself to find the reason?
In case you reducing the time from total lifespan I also agree with it but can my actions change it? If there is the chance to happy, why not embrace it? Isn't it better to accept the happiness rather than thinking about life in such a complicated? Celebrating is not necessary but there is no reason to think of spending another year as it's not something to be controlled? We are here for limited time and you should try to create moments as long as it makes us happy. That's the reason I always try to wish every people I know in their birthday because I think it can give them a little bit of happiness like I feel even if I don't think too much about birthdays. For me, what I think is not important. My little efforts can make them happy and it's the most important thing for me.
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