"What an @$$ for driving like he's blind!", you might find yourself saying...
Seriously, it's EXHAUSTING to constantly be judge of whether other people's actions are cool or not. And yet, we do it even if we are woke.
Here's a trick: Don't judge. Anything:
That religion is worse than mine
He's a bad driver
I hate my mother in law
It's not your job anyway. It's our Creators/Source's job to judge - not ours. Have you ever thought about just observing? It's a constant practice requiring being present and aware.
You might find yourself saying:
oh, he has a religion
look, that guy is driving
hmm... i have a mother in law
Observing carries no judgement. It's lighter, freeing and brings much more true joy!
I'm a big proponent of bettering myself to improve the world. So, besides changing the world, here are some other benefits:
- Less Stress! How many times were you relaxed by freaking out about how long someone was taking at the pump?
- Your Mind Is Free To Do Something Better! How much brain power will you have available when you remove all of your judgements?
- Happier Mood "It's an absolute inspirational JOY to think about how someone else sucks!", said no one ever.
Have you tried it? Let me know what you think in the comments!