Your heart. Let it dance, let it be what it is asking you to be. Holding back the flow of your heart expression is what leads to misery. You cannot be happy as you withhold that which you truly are. Say those cheesy things, do those odd acts of self expression. A healing will commence in you, you never knew could be enacted nor felt by yourself. I only say these things by experience. May this random chant of mine inspire, create desire, and drive your heart to dance.