I regularly hear people blaming all their problems on other people or what happened in the past. If you define yourself by the past actions of people who harmed you, then who are you? Know more than a product of those people. Letting them still bring you down is a choice, we are all able to define ourselves through our own actions, are own thoughts and what we believe.
You can not define yourself from other peoples actions thoughts and beliefs. Blaming other people for your situation is weak and we are all capable of being stronger, being better than those who wished you bad.
It is down to you to pick yourself up dust yourself off and move on. This does not mean forget what happened, it just means you allow what happened to make you stronger and you learn to treat others better so you don't cause the the same harm caused upon you. The past is a useful tool that we can learn a vast amount from but spending too much time there only causes harm as there is a fine line between using it to learn and over analyzing every detail.
Just a short post to give you all some motivation to do what you need to do and to help others.
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