Losing happens to everyone, but don't get so caught up in the devastation of defeat that you lose sight of the lesson. Any loss is indication that you deserve something better than that moment, the key is finding it before you stay down in defeat. The longer you hold on to losing the less likely you become able to identify victory when it walks into your life. Understand that some losses are necessary in order to validate your next victory. The biggest myth is that your loss determines who you are, it's actually what you do after it. Do you make adjustments or excuses? Get over your defeat so that you can start building a winning strategy so that you won't take residence in where you were because that NEVER was where you belonged.