People are always going to count your weaknesses, bring up your flaws, seek for your loopholes and bring them to limelight just to convince themselves and whoever cares to listen that your life isn't perfect. The truth is that they just want to console themselves thus they decide to feed on your imperfections.
Davido bought his girl a Porsche and I had to spend my day reading so many articles aimed at pointing out the flaws in their relationship and discrediting their love. Truly, some of the arguments or points brought up are quite valid, but I'm not concerned about validity but about necessity. Seriously, was it necessary to analyze their relationship just to bring out reasons why they are not a couple worth emulating? Can't we simply just be happy for people and move on???? How hard is that????? Davido isn't a perfect man, so? Who ask you???? Buying her a Porsche and singing a song is just paparazzi, kilode! Is it your paparazzi??? And to all who said it's because she can cook, was it what the young man said?? Haba, Nigerians can we be less bitter. Before the whole Porsche thing, no one cared to analyse their relationship but now they are trending for the beautiful way he celebrated her 23rd birthday you guys turned to unpaid analysts! Gosh! Let's learn to celebrate other people's success without looking for flaws to make us feel better. And to all those who are planning to start nagging their boyfriends to get them a Porsche, remember that not everyone was born with a silver spoon. What matters is that you're with someone you know would do same and even more if he has the money. So chill and work with him to make it big someday.
In another news, all those who are saying Alex #BBN is always with Tobi, "won't she go home? She is not even classy, she is just a poor girl that wants to get herself a rich dude" blah! blah! blah! Please did Tobi tell you all that she is bugging him?? I sure hope she glue to him like bread and butter, and gets her Cinderella Story. While haters will look on like the evil step-mother and sisters did. There is no where that it is written that one's success story shouldn't read this way. "she/him met a rich guy/lady who loved him/her and made him/her successful' in fact share this kind of testimony in church and watch me scream and start claiming it. This doesn't mean I'm saying girls should rely on men and not work hard. No! I'm sure anyone who knows me can tell I'm not that girl. I love to be independent and do things on my own. Still, all I'm saying if that if your success story is tied to a love interest don't be shy to accept it. Same goes to the guys. Just ensure you love them back, then you are no gold digger.
Seriously, we complain that the rich only go for the rich, but when someone chooses to make a difference the same We, will still fault them. Truly many Nigerians are scornful creature
