Sabotage!
there are two types of goals:
chances are people will support you in your abandon goals.. and even when they dont.. they will shame you to it.. so either way you find yourself sticking to the goals..
the problem comes to the second category.. when you want to improve yourself.. many people.. even friends might not be comfortable with the change.. achieving that goal might bring..
so people tend to hide such goals from their friends to avoid SABOTAGE!
now if you have friends that you can't share your 'Increase Goals' with.. because you fear they will be envious and might work for your defeat in the background..
why keep such friends?
which takes takes to the next topic: loneliness..
if you feel lonely by abandoning blood sucking friends..
what is it about yourself.. that you fear facing.. that you need friends (even bad ones) to distract you from?
those fears are what leads to SELF Sabotage!
