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This weekendexperience topic is [ What has shocked you about someone you know well and why? ]
Life is passing by and will continue to pass like this, but when we come to know some such incidents and some such things in life, we remember those things for the rest of our lives. Here, we have many friends living together and some friends live far from our home. But our routine is that we meet each other every night, each of us being free from our work, and we sit together and drink tea because this is very important for the mental health of all of us. So, a normal life was going on here. Some time ago, one of our friends got married. It had only been six months since this marriage and he had told us a lot about his marriage that he was living a very happy life with his wife and both of them were very happy.
But when we came to know the real story and the truth, we did not believe it at all because that person used to meet us every day and behaved like a normal person. We had been meeting him for a long time, but after hearing that truth, we felt very sad. Here, especially in Asian countries, most arranged marriages are done and they are successful there, but there are some that cannot be successful. We used to meet this person every day. We did not know how his family affairs were going and what the conditions were like at home. He would come with us every day, chat with us and go back. We never realized that this person could do such a thing.
After six months of his marriage, his wife contacted a friend of ours that her husband was beating her and was very cruel to her and told her that if she told anyone, I would divorce you. We were very sad and sorry to hear this news. This man, who is completely normal, was sitting with us and we had known each other for a long time. Why was he acting like this? We did not know that he liked another girl earlier, but he had married her for the honor of his family and for the sake of his family.
Then, when he did not get married to this girl and did not get peace, he kept beating her and torturing her. The real truth was that this man had gone crazy at that time and was suffering from mental depression because only a person who had a heart attack on a girl could be a patient of mental tension. That is why it is said that no one should be pressured into marriage. Every person should marry the girl of his choice so that he can spend his whole life with her and should not come under pressure from any family member.
Later, there is a lot of sadness and worries and we did not know that he liked someone else because when we were free from college and university, every person spends some time setting up his practical life, then he liked a girl. But whether the matters of life are easy or difficult, one should never raise one's hand on a girl like this and one should make oneself so strong in advance. If a decision has been made like this, then still one should never do such things.
So we explained it to him a lot later, but still he did not understand things and only after a long time did he start understanding things when we completely cut off contact with him because it is not right to be with friends like this. Later, There is a lot of sadness and worries. Divorce is considered very wrong in our society. Even today, they are both together and living the same kind of painful life, but now we are slowly hearing that their affairs are starting to improve because when life starts to pass by, many things are taught.
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