I Would Like to Change One of Our tradition

Today's topic is also going to be very special because I personally want to talk about things like this and some things that need to change here in our country too. People's lives can be made easier and nowadays the way we see that the holiday season is going on and winter is also going on, it means that the wedding season is going on in our country and we Muslim people.

Those who respect the religion of all people by saying the right to every human being should follow his own religion, so here I would like to say some things that our country is a poor country and here 60 percent People don't even get two meals a day,

But there are some practices that are not controlled here, so our country may suffer a lot in the future. If you want to get married, you must have 5 million, otherwise you can't get married here, and the worst thing here is that girls have to pay dowry, and it's very high here.

There is a ritual to be done and without it, girls do not get married here and they stay at home and they get older, so here I would like to talk about some other things that there is so much more about marriage here. It is wasted that we don't even understand why so much money is being blown away.

Here, if a boy wants to get married, it is very important for him to have money, otherwise he cannot get married in life, although our religion says that you should get married in a simple way, and some people nothing can be a better marriage than that if you invite them to a wedding,

But nowadays as we know that the era of social media is going on, all things are shown and told to each other, that's why every person would say We want our marriage to be the best, the best, all the people who are in this cycle spend lakhs of rupees on the wedding, on the decorations and on things like that which are only for some time.

After that it ends and we have seen for ourselves that the people who are getting married can never be happy no matter how hard we try for them they say inside something that it is If the thing is not right, then all the hard work of a person is wasted, so it is better that we all people should make life easy and should have simple marriage and should not spend such waste.

Today, another tradition has been added here in marriages. After watching the videos on Tik Tok, we see that every person who is getting married calls the singer, whose fee is five lac rupees.
and he gives it to her and there are about millions of rupees spent on the wedding and at the same time the singer comes,

He takes all the money away and thus more money is being misused and After watching the videos all people are trying to get married like this and the way we have seen that all people are doing this now they don't even have money so they borrow money to get married like this.

They are trying to make their name in the world but they are making the biggest mistake if they have so much money then they should marry a poor man's daughter and give it to a poor man. There are some girls who are not getting married only because of dowry, so getting them married is the greatest virtue.

We all must talk to each other that the way it is happening today is wrong, it should not be the way it should be if we all start simple marriages together. It will be much better for the next generation but no one acts on it only it is not talked about even if we are we also talk in the same way but do not act.

When we have to get married we also we waste money in the same way but this time we are also thinking not to do it in this way at all and get married in a simple way and when we do this thing, people will see us and also do it. If you do it, it will be beneficial that the girls who are sitting inside the house and are not getting married because of money,

Then in this way marriages will be easier and everyone will get married on time and everyone here. The biggest thing to think about is that a father who takes care of his daughter all his life then after 18 to 20 years of taking care of her gives her to you so this thing is most important so dowry at all. It should not be taken and the way the demands are going today and the girls especially the boys are saying that we want a car in dowry, we want a motorcycle, this kind of thing is very common here in Asian countries.

And the parents who cannot provide these things, their daughter does not get married and there are some people who have only daughters in their house and no son, and an elderly father who is the sole earner, how can he support his family. He will marry his daughters, where will he get so much money, so all these things are to be thought of.

The fact is that the first step is always difficult. If we do it now, it will be easier for our future generations, and especially for those who are poor, it will be of great benefit and a He who is poor will marry his daughter easily and will not burden her with debt, otherwise, the way marriages are being done today, a father will spend his whole life in paying off debts.