So, one day I was neither asleep nor fresh enough to know what's going on around me and that's when she whispered into my ears:
It's okay to think about yourself sometimes rather than thinking of others. It's okay to wish for our own happiness, rather than getting hurt in someone's pain. It's okay to do what we want to. It's okay revert back with the same stones people threw at us and make them know to expect the same always.
We are not meant to sit and wait for people to shit on us. Smile and swallow all the pride we have. We are not a thing, or their toy to be messed around. We all have the rights to say what we want to and what we feel like. It's okay to set boundaries for how one can treat us and if someone crosses, we can openly ask them "to leave".
We got to make people aware that we have all the rights to speak what we want to without fear or asking anyone's permission. They might get offended for getting treated the way they do, but we that right.