VALIDATION
It's okay to hurt and to get hurt. To do things to make you feel better. Sometimes you feel so lonely, and you want to escape from everything. It's okay to feel that. You just need some time to relax and do things that you love.
REASSURANCE
Even though the pain hurts and you don't like, you have to tell yourself that its okay, you can handle this. We all can handle the pain, because we are strong and we have to be one to live our lives head up.
PERSPECTIVE TAKING
We all have our good and bad days of our own. And in all our past records we have overcome those 100%, so why not the one you're dealing with now? And when we are happy, we should think that we aren't hurt that bad always. We aren't in pain so much. So, we need to think positive and make our lives better. Smiling will make us feel alive and to keep our vibes around positive.