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I have experienced friendship where we can’t even trust each other, when things go wrong we low-key suspect the next man beside us…..Friendship right?? It’s never your enemies telling your secrets, it’s always friends.
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How come when people need help, you’ll almost drown in pain just to see someone else smile, but when it’s your turn they hesitate. But you just can’t get mad and leave, why? Because you shouldn’t expect so much in the first place, so what differentiates them from a regular stranger?
More than often you may give a friend everything you can offer, attention, finance, time, care and ask nothing in return, instead of appreciating you they use you. They know how much you love and care about them and how special you treat them and use it to blackmail you emotionally cos whenever something goes wrong, whether it’s their fault or not, they know you’ll always come back cos you love them.
When you’re needy they aren’t there, but nobody’s complaining. Only when you stop caring and get a little distant they get mad. Some friends always want you to treat them special even though they do not care about you…friendship right?? Some people always have a way of tagging you as the bad guy once you choose to address their misconduct and it’s always your friends and people close to you who does these things. I have come to realize that everyone has their personal agenda and selfish interest. So instead of hurting the people we love and hurting yourself and settling for less all in the name of friendship; why not just live your life and mind your business? You don’t have to lower your standards to please anyone, if you need anything so bad, work hard and follow the process the right people will notice your uniqueness and genuinely help.
I believe people have to take themselves off that pedestal of toxic friendship and start doing what’s right instead of what’s acceptable. Don’t expect people to be the same person you once knew cos change is constant and so is growth, attitude and views about life. You might wanna consider your manner of approach; your reactions wouldn’t be because you hate them only that you adjusted your personality. Don’t train your mind to believe that constant disrespect, trolls, and misbehavior is cool as long as y’all are friends. Act right, live your life, connect and the right friends will come along.
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