You wake up and your surrounded by the same routine, work, home, eat and sleep. Some wake up and are surrounded by walls of silence, no other life resides in their home. They can hear the cars going by, the birds humming and see the weather changing. They have nobody but themselves to talk to, they deteriorate as life makes them older. Neighbours just watch as they are full of life, content in their lives and gossip about others. They don’t think about that man living a few doors down, that has no children, wife passed away. He sits there in his home, day after day. Who will find him? Who will know if he has passed away? You knew he was suffering but nobody bothered but stayed away. The only form of communication was telling other neighbours “did you see the ambulance come? “. Then after a few days “oh he has come back home now, we saw the ambulance”. Typical of people hey, all talk and no action. Nobody bothered, well that’s not caring. Some people wake up divorced, single parent, having to cope day after day with failed relationships. Relationships that don’t want to go anywhere, she gives her love but nobody truly cares. She has relationships but they truly don’t see how she crumbles inside, waking up in the empty bed, no adult conversation, just her and her children. But she can’t crumble on the outside as people will talk about how bad she looks, or she isn’t coping. She tries her best to keep going every day to meet her bills and keep her kids happy so they don’t feel the loss of not having the other parent.
If people cared and actually stopped to think about others, this world would be a better place. Don’t stop and ask questions about someone go and look for yourself. Show your concerns, show your love. Do something good, be happy and make others happy. You will be very surprised on how much your efforts are appreciated.
Be that person who knocks on an ill persons door, asking whether they need something. Knock on that women’s door that hasn’t been out for a long time. Stop talking and labelling single mothers who try there dam hardest to make their lives happier. They should talk about the fathers who run away from their responsibilities.
Declare your love to a man or women before it’s too late, be the one to make it happen.
Don’t let someone you care about throw their life away to drugs/ alcohol.
Help a person that is in need, a person that self-harms, show them life can be great. Get them the support they need to help them be strong.
Hold your friend/partner’s hand through an illness, don’t walk away. It’s not a burden to support someone you love, it’s an honour.
I don’t want to die without being loved, do you? Marriage is not being handcuffed to someone but a symbol of your love, its not ownership, only 2 people that love eachother, cant imagine life without them. Respect yourself and respect others.
Do good in your life, be good to yourself and be good to others.
Thank you
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