The family always comes first. They're people we live for. Yes, society is important and it is very necessary to give poor. But first if we can't practice to help our family, if we don't balance society. That's my understanding.
Our family and relatives should be our first priority as a charity. Yes, some people choose to help charity to help their families. I don't think there's a wise way to grow society.
If you look from a religious point of view, you will notice, first we must look at our family and relatives. The rest of the world comes later. It is a necessary component to expand society through aid efforts. But first we can think of how we can help the whole community if we don't give our family the right to help.
I've seen a lot of people separating the rate to win to give to charity. First they look at all the family's needs, then put a certain proportion of charity. My family followed it. So it sounds smarter to me.
